Sorry you amazing ladies are having a rough go of it...it's OK to be honest with feeling crappy. And to tell people. Last year, after my brother died and Jeff was diagnosed, I started answering honestly to people who asked me "how are you?" "Lousy"...I'd reply, "but hopefully it will pass." It's really hard to admit when you're hurting, but being honest about it, even with people who do not really know you, breaks down the walls between us.
wishing for better days ahead,
Husband dx RRMS 3/07
dx dual jugular vein stenosis (CCSVI) 4/09