Hi everyone. I'm struggling with a relationship issue and hoping you can all shed some light on this. My fiance and I started dating Jan 2013. In december he moved in and a month later proposed. On Nov 18, I was finally diagnosed with MS, after many years of ruling things out. It has been three months since my diagnosis and I just told my fiance. Sadly, I told him only when he confronted me about my low energy level. He is devastated and is judging me pretty harshly. He says that this says a lot about my character and that while he can deal with the ms he wonders why I didn't tell.right away. I have apologized repeatedly and have tried to explain that we were so busy and there never seemed to be a right time to tell him. My diagnosis came about two weeks before he turned In his apt. He feels that was the time to tell him. I honestly don't know why I didn't say. Denial, I suspect, was my problem. From the instant I told him of my ms I offered him the ring back and explained that I would understand and not blame him for leaving. Since finding out over five days ago he hasn't kissed me, held my hand or touched me in any way. He was recently in the hospital and I was by his side at all times. He says he was honest and I was not. Again I don't know why I didn't run home and tell him I just think he is being a bit rough on me. Am I wrong? Am I an awful person?