Unfortunately there is no normal in MS. It affects everyone differently. My advice, diagnosed 24+ years ago, is to stay as positive as possible and keep as fit as possible and try not to get too stressed. It may take some time to get the correct mindset but the old adage 'if you worry you die and if you don't worry you die, so why worry?' is true. That is the mindset to have. The main thing is not to let it get you down.