Well, I've been on the creme for about 9 days now. No "Bang" style noticeable in difference especially sex drive. However, I have gotten my "emotional feelings" back. I dont mean depressed, or anything like that, just feelings period. Before I could care less about anything, and I mean anything, kind of "cold hearted" so to speak. It has definately improved my marriage 100%, because now I listen and talk with my wife vs. shutting her out; especially if I had something I wanted to do. It has kind of calmed my nerves to where I can deal with issues at work vs. going straight to "pissed off" in 5 seconds! I guess what I am trying to say is it has helped me tremendously with my tolerance level.