I think you will find that a lot of us MS'ers are Super A Type personalities.
I wish you the best in your journey and maybe you could get the hubby to post and or read by letting him know there are a lot of strong, intelligent men here on this site and they are dealing with the same struggles in life that he is learning to deal with. He could draw some strength from the guys around here.
Holly - Shine On You Crazy Diamond - Pink Floyd
9/3/09 Stanford - Dr Dake - Stent in R-J to unblock Arachnoid Cyst in Sigmoid Sinus. Stent in narrowed L-J. Balloon in narrowing where R & L Jugulars meet.