Welcome. This is a good place to come to and learn. My husband's on a modified Swank diet, because he couldn't let go of his occasional cheese and mayo. But he's been eating all low fat, no red meat, lots of fish and veggies for over a year now. This diet keeps the inflammation down, and that seems to keep things quiet for him.
Here's my supplement/diet regimen for Jeff...I put it together with alot of help from this site, my own obsessive googling, a holistic doc friend, and his neuro.
It helps if the whole family can get involved in diet changes, Swank is good for everyone (although my teenage son isn't thrilled with all the fish, he's dealing.) All anti inflammatory foods and supplements can really make a difference.
Best to you and your husband-