I'm a sucker for long-lost love stories, but what a lousy Valentine's gift. You're right, it's not fair. But it's your life together now.
My hubby was dx on my birthday in '07. It's really hard watching someone you love deal with this disease.
You've come to a good place to learn and get encouragement for yourself. However we can be of assistance, don't be afraid to ask, and if your boyfriend wants some guys to talk to, the men on this board are alright. Use the search function in the forums to learn about any topic.
Husband dx RRMS 3/07
dx dual jugular vein stenosis (CCSVI) 4/09