I'm wondering if you missed Brownsfan's recommendation. Here's his reply to your earlier message.
"Introduce yourself on this website http://ldn.proboards3.com/index.cgi
and Brenda the moderator will most likely direct you to an LDN friendly doc in your area. Worst case you will have to pay for a phone consult but those can run a few hundred bucks.
Best of luck."
I also wish you and your boyfriend the best of luck.