I'm so sorry for your loss of your brother.
That must have been very difficult. I lost my Dad and Mom the last two Christmases, my Dad in 2004, and Mom in 2005. I lost two siblings earlier in life. I worry about my remaining siblings, they aren't in the best of health...
For the last decade or so of my parents' lives, I was lucky enough to be able to visit them often. My Dad was one of the youngest of a very large family. He was the last one to go... Later on as he developed dementia, he would speak of how much he missed his siblings, especially his twin brother who died 25 years before him (Dad lived to age 92).
If you ever need to talk, just send me an email.
Take care, Ewizabeth Previously Avonex, Rebif & Copaxone RRMS ~Tysabri, 31 infusions, ended 9/09. Starting Copaxone 12/09, waiting for Cladribine to be approved in 2010.