As the husband of an MS'er, it is initially difficult to come to grips with the fact that your partner has this very life-changing disease. It is very important that the two of you communicate with each other - you definately have to tell him how you are feeling, we guys do not have crystal balls (
) and we can't guess what you are going through. He on the other hand needs to understand the disease, he has to read as much as he can about M.S. so he can try and know what's happening to you.
There's no doubt about it, M.S. is a bitch, you both need to accept it and work around it. And hey, you can't do what you can't do and "Villagedad" has to recognise that. All the very best to you both