hello, i'll answer very simply to say that i would look closely at several important nutrients (all of which are well known in science - if not in practice - to be low in ms patients).
now. first and foremost, serum zinc. as soon as you said 3 boys in the last 8 years, my thinking went there. aim for 18 umol/L serum zinc.
given the nature of aneurysm and the importance of zinc to membrane integrity, i looked for a study on zinc status and aneurysm. found this:
Diet and content of zinc in serum of patients with brain aneurysm
http://www.cabdirect.org/abstracts/2010 ... E80C4F676D"The average content of Zn in serum of patients with a brain aneurysm was statistically significantly (p<0.03) lower (0.651±0.20 mg/L) than in the control group (0.761±0.19 mg/L)."
(if you convert to SI units, the serum zinc level here was just 9.96 umol/L in aneurysm patients, barely half what you'd see in reliably healthy controls)
then re the pain, tics and fatigue, two things:
serum magnesium (aim for at least 0.90-0.95 mmol/L)
serum vitamin d3 (aim for at least 100-150 nmol/L).
if your docs don't use those units you can ask me if you need conversion info.
hope you can get some testing done

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keep your chin up! lots you can take charge of between now and that dec 20 appt. esp if you have ready access to a little bloodwork. i'll be around if you have questions.