Yes, I totally agree (re ranting and raving). As you know, I can be a real pro at that myself!
Right now, I don't know what to tell ya. That's why I was so frustrated a while back (when I vented on poor Wesley). (Sorry, Wesley.......it wasn't "you" I was upset with or about.) Oh, and I did have to go back and delete some things I said about "myself", because I divulged way too much information (that might not be too good for my "health and safety".
Anyway, maybe when we get a chance, we'll have to take another look to see if there is another positive way to look at all this. Right now it's hard, though. I'm totally with you there!