Ha Nenu thanks, but the cameraa does lie - there are so few pics of me because most of the clothes I wear are ful of holes, clash horribly (so I am told - can't see it myself) and would look better on a homeless person, so no-one wants me in their pics. My son took those pics especilly for the thread, and you can only see my face, so you can't tell.
I seriously spend my life in frayed shorts (I have several pairs), t-shirts with holes in them because they are so old (I hate shopping) - I even go to the grocery store barefoot. I do not and have never owned an 'evening or cocktail' frock in my whole life, and that is just how I like it - I am very comfortable with myself - as are you! Good stuff
If I absolutely have to look respectable for church or a meeting at my kids school, I will put on a pair of jeans or cotton pants depending on the weather - and I may wear sandles (my hubby just bought me a pair of Crocs - dead flat sandles, not clogs, and they feel very steady to walk in and are comfortable, so I would probably wear those).