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elly
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Post by elly »

Harry i'm so sorry for your loss.

It was obvious what a devoted husband you were.

Elly
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Post by CureOrBust »

Sorry and shocked to hear about this news. Nothing we could say could make things better, but my condolences are with you and all your family.
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Harry, you were the best husband anyone could have. Our thoughts are with you.

Sarah
An Itinerary in Light and Shadow Completed Dr Charles Stratton / Dr David Wheldon abx regime for aggressive secondary progressive MS in June 2007, after four years. Still improving with no relapses since starting. Can't run but can paint all day.
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Post by robbie »

Sorry Harry, she is in peace now.
Had ms for 28 yrs,
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Post by TwistedHelix »

Dear Harry,
This community of ours – so widespread, so different, and yet so deeply touched by your sad loss.
I hope you can sense the true depth of understanding we all share about a life lived with MS, and an appreciation of the honest love of those who stay with us and care about us. You accompanied your wife on a long and difficult journey, and your presence was a gift beyond compare. For what it's worth, these are the last few lines of a poem I wrote for my mother's funeral a couple of years ago:

Together you had laughed and conquered
Life's tempestuous storm,
Safe harbour in each other's arms,
Alone no more, and warm.

But now you sing with those you loved,
The ones who'll recognise
That mischief light which sparkled bright
Behind those laughing eyes.

We'll see it, too, who stayed behind,
One frozen Autumn morn,
When dew-dipped cobwebs lace along
The frost-encrusted lawn.

When sun-splashed rivers glide below
The Skylark's joyous tune,
And tender snowflakes settle, soft,
Beneath the silvered moon.

Rest easy, Mum, your work is done,
Let slip your bonds; be free,
But know that, though you'll toil no more,
Yet still you'll carry me.
Dom
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Post by thinkingoutloud86 »

Harry...I am sorry about your loss.

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Post by lyndacarol »

Harry, although I can hardly find the keys through my tears and don't have the right words, I must add my thoughts of sympathy.

You and Marg fought the best fight possible and you have given so much to all of us as well. Now we wish we could give help to you; we try each in our own way. Once again that helpless feeling washes over us.

I pray that you will have the strength and grace to deal with this sadness. Please know that you have touched so many lives here that share your grief. Our love and thoughts to you, dear friend.
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Post by Jaded »

Harry

I am so sorry for your sad loss. I wish you peace and strength at this difficult time.

I admire Marg for all the years she dealt with the blows that ms delivers, and you for your unending devotion to her.

May she rest in peace.

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Post by Mary »

Harry

I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. You have my heartfelt condolences.

Mary
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Post by gwa »

Harry,

I am so sorry that you have lost your wife. You were a stand out husband always there for her.

Thanks for letting us know about her passing.

gwa
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Post by Loobie »

She is at peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you Harry.
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Post by Muu »

So sorry to hear your sad news Harry.
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Post by coach »

Dear Harry,
My sincerest sympathy to you on the loss of your beloved Marg. She fought the good fight with your help. I know you will deeply miss her presence. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Post by agate »

HarryZ,

I'm so sorry about your loss. I've read many of your posts for quite a while on another board, and I admire you for your devotion to her and to exploring this weird disorder she had to put up with.
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Post by AllyB »

Dear Harry

I am deeply sorry for the loss of your beloved Marg. I know that you will miss her terribly and pray that you find comfort that she is at peace now. From what I have read, she was blessed to have such love and support from you and I am sure you enriched each others' lives immeasurably. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family and I wish you the strength to cope with this loss.
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