Hi Guys
Been out of commission for a while, but over the Avonex now (for another week!), so sorry for the late reply - but thanks for all those responses - make me realise that I was wrong to generalise - all I can say is that Bob lead me astray!
So, yeah, Brock, I do feel better - at least I now know that Americans' do in fact get an education (if they want it) and don't all spend their time in high school playing football and being cheerleaders....

(sorry, 5th grade is primary school/elementary school). We get satelite TV here (Friday Night Lights?) and I remember having an American exchange student in my last year of high school....All I will say about Sheri is that she was ...different!
Jack - the way to any mother's heart is through her kids...They are a handful, very active and energetic, which is not usually a problem as we have the pool, and a jungle gym in the garden, but a bad storm hit here Sunday night, the temp has dropped to around 18C and it is still raining, so playing outside is out for now - too cold! But they are so damn beautiful - I look at them when they are sleeping...
My husband and i were very lucky, we bought our house 8 yrs ago (before we had kids) and have managed to get a big old house on a half acre plot just 10 minutes drive from the city centre - before prices went through the roof in the area...But maintenance is a problem! I have lots of friends who don't have kids and they manage to live very happy lives - mostly as God Parents or aunts and uncles, who can hand the little munchkins back after a couple of hours! I never thought that I would have kids - they came as a surprise to me when I was well into my thirty's (another story), so I take each day with them as a blessing.
I am glad that you guys don't mind me talking about personal stuff - I really love the scientific information I find here as it is so cutting edge yet easy (generally) to understand and not stuff that even my Neuro talks about, but i also like to connect with other people - SA has a population of 40million, but only 3000 people with ms, and I have never met any of them, we don't have ms clinics or specialists (just general Neuros who are lucky if they have three or four patients in their practice with ms), or even support groups, though we do have a website, it has been essentially inactive for years, so I enjoy the friends I am making on this site as I don't belong to any other sites/groups.
I also don't mind that you know where I live - Durban is a big city!
Jack, it sounds great that you are so close to your sister's kids - it can give a new perspective on how the next generation thinks - I have a nephew who is 18 (he lives in the Uk with my sister - his mother), and a niece who is 17 (she lives in Zimbawe - think Victoria falls - with my brother - her Dad), and I have cousins in Vancouver and Ireland, best friends in Houston, LA, and Miami (they are like family - people we went to school with - 20 odd yrs ago, especially the folks in Houston as they are God Parents to my kids), so we are truly a global family!
I would love to visit Arizona - my Texas buds have been and say it is awesome - the only desert i have seen is in Namibia - went sand boarding - fantastic country. If I get to the States next year to Texas, I will get them to make a plan for me - I know Vegas will be on their list as they, for some strange reason, love it - now there is a weird place, never seen anything like it before!
You guys should think about a holiday in Africa - there is so much to see and do - even the landscape is foreign and ever-changing. The exchange rate is also in your favour...If not South Africa, then Madagascar, or Kenya, or Botswana - can't recommend Zimbawe to anyone right now because of Robert Mugabe (the lunatic - Bob, I would never dare say something like that about your president - I would either get kicked off the site, or interrogated by the CIA). Mugabe is the 80 odd year old president of Zim - he is a dictator who has run his country's economy into the ground - terrible human rights violations, no food, highest inflation rate in the world (at something like 2000%) - you need a shopping trolley to carry the cash you need to buy a loaf of bread - terrible, as it is a beautiful place, the people are real friendly, and the land is very fertile - it is a real shame what has happened to Zimbawe.
As you can all see, I have bounced back with a vengeance from my shot - the baclophen was amazing for the muscle spasms as I was pain free from those - but I noticed two side effects - one good(?), one bad. The first was that it totally knocked me out - I slept most of Sunday, Sunday night and Monday - woke up to watch Grey's Anatomy (I love that show!), then went back to sleep again...I only take it Sunday and Monday, so at least I am awake now (Tuesday)- and that was only a half dose (5mg)...The bad effect was the headaches, got a hold of some tylenol/codeine mix that helped a bit, so all in all, I would say that the baclophen was good - I feel very refreshed after so much sleep, particularly as I usually battle to sleep after Avonex because of the spasms!
Any way better go now after rambling on so much (Jack - don't encourage me!) - kids are clamouring for attention - I am sitting on the open veranda watching the rain as I type on my laptop, and the naughty brats are starting to push buttons on the keyboard to force me to stop....Do other parents of young children seem to spend half their time shouting? I never thought that I would be this way, but they don't listen if I speak in a normal tone of voice.....Do you think this site would stretch to parenting advice?
Take care all & chat to you soon.